Verbal communication seems to drive business. A manager tells
her staff what to do, the employees respond by doing it. If someone
has questions about an assignment, he simply asks. Words and language
provide a clear, straightforward means of communication, ideal
for today’s business world.
Right? Not necessarily. It turns out some 90 percent of communication
between people is non-verbal. Gestures and other “body language,”
charts and diagrams—even the surrounding physical environment—can
communicate far more clearly, eloquently and honestly than mere
words alone. This is especially true in businesses where the native
language of an employee is different than his or her supervisor’s.
Bob Barancik has designed an unusual exercise to help employees
and managers become more aware of the power of non-verbal communication.
He calls it “From Here to There: Communicating Non-verbally.”
In this exercise, participants pair up in teams. Then, they are
told to give their partner directions to their house—without
speaking. It sounds easy—just draw a map, right? But, here's
the catch. They aren’t allowed to write words, either. For
20 minutes, people often find themselves struggling to make connections
with each other without benefit of language. They may clutch their
marking pens and draw symbol after symbol. They study their partner’s
face for any glimmer of recognition. As the process of comprehension
begins, the facial expressions and body and hand gestures become
signposts, leading to the destination.
We need verbal communications to make business work. But in the
business world, language is only part of the story. Bob Barancik
teaches managers and staff how to effectively communicate the
entire story, verbally and non-verbally. It's the best way to
ensure that everyone gets the full message.
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